How do you define success?
Well there are many a ways of defining success depending on how you look at life. But one good definition, a general one at that, is as follows," If you wake up in the morning and go to bed at night and in between do what you LOVE to do; you are successful."
Now that is pretty meaningful. Unfortunately now a days success is defined as a comparison factor. A comparison between what you are EARNING and what "another guy" of your age is earning. The comparison factor becomes even more skewed if the "another guy" happens to be your friend or a relative. Trust me man, you are so dead except that you don't know yet that you are dead.
Your parents (the main culprits), your relatives, your friend circle and finally you yourself will kill you by comparison.
The real way to compare should be between your past and present. If you have done something better than your own past in any possible way; you have succeeded. Unfortunately our education system also promotes unfair comparison in assessing success.
So my friends to be successful, see whether you are doing what you love to do and whether you are comparing yourself with your own self. If the above is yes; you are successful. Else think again !!!!
Well there are many a ways of defining success depending on how you look at life. But one good definition, a general one at that, is as follows," If you wake up in the morning and go to bed at night and in between do what you LOVE to do; you are successful."
Now that is pretty meaningful. Unfortunately now a days success is defined as a comparison factor. A comparison between what you are EARNING and what "another guy" of your age is earning. The comparison factor becomes even more skewed if the "another guy" happens to be your friend or a relative. Trust me man, you are so dead except that you don't know yet that you are dead.
Your parents (the main culprits), your relatives, your friend circle and finally you yourself will kill you by comparison.
The real way to compare should be between your past and present. If you have done something better than your own past in any possible way; you have succeeded. Unfortunately our education system also promotes unfair comparison in assessing success.
So my friends to be successful, see whether you are doing what you love to do and whether you are comparing yourself with your own self. If the above is yes; you are successful. Else think again !!!!
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Wow..this is really thoughtful bro..! :)
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